For Allie

Believe

Allie

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Allie’s memorial was held at San Antonio Catholic Church in Anaheim Hills on Monday, March 7 at 11:00am.  

Her celebration of life followed afterward in Irvine.

Click here to see how you can help in lieu of flowers.

Posted March 2, 2012 by TeamAllie 

Dance!

The Brad Paisley concert in Las Vegas was phenomenal.  But this little show seen right after the concert was nearly as good.

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Reflections on Childhood Days with Allie!

We lived only blocks apart and met in kindergarten!  All through our elementary years we had such good times filled with laughter and carefree days! I have vivid memories of roller blading between homes, swimming in Allie's pool or ours, Girl Scout activities, Koeberle tacos, sleep-overs, birthday parties (Our birthdays were exactly one month apart!), summer music theater, and 4th of July family BBQ's!  My family and I have reflected on special moments spent with Allie including mother-daughter overnights to Palm Springs, breakfast with Santa at Buffum's, my ice skating birthday party carried out by Joanne when my dad fell and broke his hip the morning of the party, and a summer outing to visit our family in Catalina!  Our "Sorta Cinderella" musical in fifth grade was a highlight to our elementary years! I can still relive my moment when I, in my "glitzy" green fairy godmother costume (made by Joanne), recited my lines: "Believe in yourself! You can do anything!" The "glam" step-sisters, Allie and Lisa, were at my side, then, as they so often were through the years!

Allie 's life and Celebration of Life have reminded us all of the power of the word "Believe!"  

To dear little Riley...I hope you will grow up with a childhood  friend who touches your life with cherished memories as your Mommy has to me!


I challenge you to "Believe in yourself! You can do anything!" as your Mommy did!

 

Stefani Krueger Von Huben

Elaine and CG Krueger

 

P.S. Riley, I have included some pictures of special moments I spent with your Mommy.  One is a note she wrote to me so full of encouragement before we went on stage! SHE brought magic to others.  I’m sure you will always have your Mommy’s magic in your heart!

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Posted April 14, 2011 by email 

For Allison's website

Dear Riley, 

My daughter, Layla, and I first met you and your mom at Gymboree in Anaheim Hills. You and Layla were just a few months old.  I remember you were a very active baby.  You sat up early and was one of the first in the class to start crawling.  Your mom and I became friends and made more friends through Gymboree. We all formed a play group and before she was diagnosed with cancer. Unfortunately going through cancer treatments prevented her from attending a lot of activities. But when she did attend it was very enjoyable to listen to your mom talk.  She was always smiling and had positive things to say.  We also participated in Stroller Strides together and even while working out she was happy.  Later on you and Layla did dance and gymnastics classes together.  I really enjoyed spending time with your mom while the kids danced and jumped around.  You appeared to enjoy gymnastics more than you did dance class.  However, it was still really cute to see you all dressed up. Your mom always did a great job with your hair and outfits.  I was pleased when she brought you to Layla's second birthday at Gymboree. You had a great time at Gymboree. It's no wonder they became so involved with Gymboree. While talking to your mom during the classes I was always amazed at her spirit while going through the treatments.  Your mom and dad are an inspiration on how to live life. I remember she once told me about taking you skiing for the first time.  She said you had a great time, even if you were a little to young for the class.  I thought that was funny that your parents wanted you to ski so badly they fibbed your age.  I also enjoyed hearing about her 30th birthday party and then when your parents renewed their vows in Las Vegas.  They lived their life to the fullest! It is something I want to strive to do with my husband and daughter.  Your mother was one of the people who mentioned the preschool you would be attending and when I looked at I saw what she saw. It is a great caring school.  It turned out that you and Layla are in the same preschool class. I was happy to know that I would be able to continue to see you and your mom at preschool.  I then heard more inspiring stories about your mom and dad while they dropped you off or picked you up from school.  The fact that your dad was always there for you mom is just incredible. He also always had a smile on his face even while your mom was going through some tough times.  I still see your dad at preschool and he still has that smile on his face. I'm sure he is hurting but I love to see that you still make him smile.  I don't know what he plans on doing with your schooling but I hope to continue to watch you grown wether it be at school or getting together every so often for play dates with Layla and the playgroup.
I am confident that you will grow into a beautiful, happy, smiling woman just like your mother.
Love, Melissa and Layla Farzad

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Posted April 8, 2011 by email 

Post from Joanne Koeberle

I have enjoyed being able to see how Allison impacted other peoples lives and it makes me proud.  I now have a different perspective of my little girl. 

To me she was quiet and selfless, humble and kind. She cheered for the underdog because in some environments she was just that.  She cheered for her friends and was always proud of their achievements.  It seemed as though she molded herself to meet the needs of every person she met.

I was lucky to share many moments of quite confidentiality, solving the problems of the world. We shared our dreams, big huge dreams which I always encouraged her and Michael to have. She had much, much more to accomplish in her life but I am quite sure she would be satisfied with the love she was able to give and receive from her friends and family.

I think it was her quiet manner her accepting ways that gave her the power to influence people to allow them to open up and share their dreams with her.

When she met Brian she was able to grab hold of life and be her louder self because he gave her the self esteem to do just that. Their love for each other is and always will be unconditional. He loved her no matter what…, with or without hair.  I’ll never forget the day he encouraged her to “rock her bald head.”  They shaved off her wisps of hair and she sent her smiling picture to her family. That picture alone showed to the world to embrace life and the challenges handed to you. And that she did with grace and poise.

A mother should never have to bury her daughter; a daughter should never have to grow up not knowing her mother.  Because of you all that will never happen.

I am eager to see the book Dawn builds for Riley with the stories you have shared.  I am eager to hear how she affected your lives and wishing that you take a little of her with you as you live fully and love endlessly.

Allison’s mommie Joanne

Posted March 16, 2011 by email 

For Riley

Because I Knew Your Mom I Will...

Buy a white cowgirl hat.
Try to get Haley to wear more hair ribbons, or at least keep them in.
Wakeboard even when the water is too cold and I think I am too tired.
Eat more peanut butter and jelly sandwiches, (strawberry jelly) Even though your Dad and I know grape tastes better.
Listen to more country music.
Go see Brad Paisley in concert anywhere, anytime.
Take more vacations - your Uncle J is rolling his eyes since he thinks we take enough as it is, but your Mom and I made a pact and a deal's a deal.
Never think I can have enough friends
Complain less, or at lease try really hard to complain less.
Hug your Dad a lot, because I know he will be missing those hugs from your Mom.
Be inspired.
Continue to go to Needles, CA on vacation even if it is a dump.
Walk miles and miles at Relay for Life to try to make sure we don't lose anyone else that we love.
Play more blackjack.
Drink more pina coladas.
Drink more period :)
Keep our family traditions alive including Greene Schultz Christmas.
Never be able to suppress a giggle when I see a waiter in a white jacket and remember how we dressed your Dad and Uncle J up on our cruise.
Always bring my scarf to SC games even if it is 90 degrees.
Make your Dad and Uncle J take us all to Hawaii often. Like every year.
Learn to sew.
Wear more green.
Never hear an Elvis song and not think of the night your parents renewed their vows in Vegas.
Admire well done and creative invitations.
Tell my family I love them everyday.
Tell Haley and Sam to always refer to your Mom as "T Allie" - she always got a kick out of that.
Take the boat out every summer even if I am pregnant again.
Learn CPR as your Uncle J will keel over if the previous thing happens.
Be shameless in my fundraising efforts to find a cure.
Bake more Christmas cookies.
Always apply sunscreen to my forearms and hands. Standing in the water all day long holding onto a cocktail can leave quite a burn.
Take a deep breath and just relax more often.
Watch every episode of the Real Housewives series and wish desperately that I could call your Mom to talk about it.
Take more pictures and more videos, even if my camera doesn't fit in my purse.
See the beauty in little things like a beautiful sunset.
Go to St. Bart's again.
Eat more fondue.
Smile more often thinking about how she used to make me laugh.
Be there for you if you EVER need anything.
Always Believe. 

Love,
Auntie Erin

Big Brian......

Hello Brian,

 

It’s been a long time since I spoke with you….I hope you’re doing ok.  Your family is so beautiful…  You’re a great guy and I wish you and your family an amazing future.

 

Take care,

 

Jack Roessell

 

Posted March 15, 2011 by email 

Allie

I had the chance to meet the inspiring Allie.  One of my friends told me about Allie’s battle with Cancer and what an amazing person she was.  She introduced us because I design women’s clothing and every piece I designed is named after an individual who has battled cancer.  I was honored to name and design a piece for her.  Her words of hope that hung on the tag said  “Believe! Believe in yourself. Believe that you are capable of anything.  Believe that your positive attitude will inspire others, as you achieve wellness.  Believe you have a choice how you experience this crazy roller coaster ride called life.  Believe in your dreams”.  And this sums it all up….Allie never stop believing.  What a wonderful inspiring woman!

-Alexis

Posted March 14, 2011 by email 

BT in the Morning Radio Show

Kristina Johnson shares Allie's story on the radio.

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Letter for site

Dear Riley,

It is hard for me to find words to describe to you how wonderful your mom was. She was, and always will be, one of my dearest, closest friends. We met my last year of college when she and her friend, Kristina, moved in next door to me. I was going to San Diego State and they had just graduated from Boulder. We lived right next to the bay, in Mission Beach. I was so thrilled to find out two girls my age were moving in, and we formed an instant friendship. We also both ended up working at Nordstrom UTC together. I worked at the MAC counter and she was right across from me selling women’s shoes (not her favorite job). She was working there waiting to find a graphic design job. Everyone loved her there. She was always so classy and kind and she made everyone feel special. After a year living at the beach, Allie and I moved in together in Carmel Valley. I had so much fun living with your mom. She was the BEST roommate ever! I think it was the year we lived together that American Idol began, and we were glued to the television, eating yummy junk food. We both loved our pizza and sweets. We also loved to watch reality TV! I had so much fun decorating with her too! I always thought I was a decent decorator, but when she and your grandma came down, they made our apartment lively. I learned from your mom the importance of decorating with plants. It really does liven up a home. We shared some very special moments together. It was in this apartment that I got engaged and Allie met your dad. Wow…what a night that was when she came home after meeting him. She was so happy. I was talking about it with my husband, and we just remember a peace coming over her, after she met him. They had so much fun together. Your dad would come and visit and they would go to IHOP EVERY weekend, literally! Our most memorable moment was when we went to downtown San Diego together and your dad and my husband came home and dressed in some of our undergarments. Your dad bent over and they ripped and I don’t think we laughed so hard in years. That was one thing your mom could really do well, laugh! Her smile and laughter were contagious! She and I also shared a love for psychics. I’m sure you will hear about all the psychics she and your grandma would go to. I’m sure your grandma will take you someday.


After our year together, I got married and your mom moved to Orange County to be by your dad. Your mom and I were bridesmaids in each other’s weddings. Boy, did your parent’s have a wedding. Your mom, dad, and grandma put together the most fantastic parties. Their wedding was the classiest, most beautiful wedding I have ever attended…and the love in the air was amazing. I remember your mom being so calm when she was getting ready to walk down the aisle to marry your dad. I did her make up for her, and I just remember thinking how at peace she seemed.


We also got to share our pregnancies together. You, and my son Kai, are a month a part. We had so much fun talking about having little babies together. I knew I was having a boy, but your mom and dad liked to be surprised. They were so thrilled when there little Sarah Riley Greene came out. I knew your mom would be so thrilled because that girl could shop, and girls’ clothes are WAY cuter than boys! When I came to see you, the love in your mom’s eyes was breathtaking. She made me so excited to be a mom. We tried to get the two of you together every couple months, and it was nice to be able to see one another too. Your mom was one of the best listeners I know, and she gave great advice. She really paid attention to her friends, and cared deeply about their lives.


Your mom was such an amazing friend to me. I love her so dearly. She will be missed so very much, but will live on in my heart forever. I keep thinking she might be my angel. Riley, you really are one lucky girl. Your mother was such a gift to all of us, especially you and your dad. Know that she will always be watching over you. And, you have about the best daddy a girl could ask for. I know he will keep your mom’s memory alive every day. You have two of the most inspirational, kind, classy parents I know.

Amanda

Posted March 10, 2011 by email